D/s Relationships Workshop / D/s relations atelier – Aug 25

[La version française est ci-dessous]

The workshop had great attendance which told me this was a subject of interest in the public.

We covered as many types of D/s relationships and discussed the roles and responsibilities of each. There were good questions about how to get someone to know and express their interests if they are somewhat uncomfortable or uncertain. There were also some great suggestions, such as having the person seek out things of interest on the internet watching videos or reading stories to help understand their fantasies.

We talked a lot about sex in D/s relationships or lack thereof.

The group consisted of some already in D/s relationships, others who had recently ended one, one person who was curious, and a few others that were looking to really start one. One couple was interested in exploring D/s in the regular relationship and that gave me the opportunity to use their situation as a beginning relationship exploring the steps they might take and things they would need to discuss and agree on. That provided the rest of the group a better understanding by being able to ask them questions and also myself.

Thanks to everyone who attended and for your great questions and comments!

– Contessa Alura


Plusieurs personnes ont assisté à l’atelier! Ce qui veut dire que les relations de Domination /
soumission (D/s) intéressent beaucoup de gens.

Nous avons discuté de plusieurs types de relations D/s, ainsi que des rôles et responsabilités
de leurs adeptes. Plusieurs bonnes questions ont été posées, dont: comment connaître
quelqu’un; comment connaître ses objectifs; comment rassurer une personne incertaine ou
inconfortable, et ainsi de suite.

Plusieurs bonnes idées ont également été suggérées, dont l’utilisation de l’internet afin de
trouver des ressources ou de s’inspirer de la littérature pour ses fantasmes.

Nous avons aussi beaucoup parlé de sexe et de carences dans les relations D/s.

Parmi notre groupe, il y avait quelques personnes qui étaient déjà impliquées dans des
relations D/s, quelques autres qui avaient cessé de l’être, une personne qui était là par
curiosité et quelques autres qui souhaitaient développer une relation D/s. Un couple en
particulier souhaitait intégrer le concept D/s dans leur relation. Je me suis servi de leur
situation en tant qu’exemple d’une relation qui vient de commencer. J’ai présenté les étapes
qu’ils allaient franchir de toute probabilité et des discussions qui en suivraient surement.
C’était une discussion générale impliquant tous les membres du groupe.

Merci à tous et à toutes de vos questions et commentaires pértinents!

– Contessa Alura

Posted on September 16, 2010, in Workshops / Ateliers and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.

  1. I really enjoyed the workshop. Lots of food for thought. I’m also really grateful for the work you’re doing with the ALCC. It’s a great resource.

    I had an idea for a related workshop or discussion that could be interesting: submissive training.

    Looking forward to attending more workshops and events.

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